If you’re always having bad luck with women and are wondering how to finally make yourself attractive to women, then you’ve come to the right place.
I’ll explain to you why it’s not just good looks that make you attractive and how you can be more appealing to women.
When is a man attractive?
What you may not know: Attractiveness doesn’t just depend on your looks. Your character can also make you seem attractive as a man. These traits are popular with women:
1. Self-confidence
A man who likes and accepts himself exudes a natural attraction . Self-confidence, by the way, is something that can definitely be learned; only very few people are born with it. More on this further down in the article.
2. Posture
An upright posture and a confident gait signal self-confidence and masculinity. You appear taller and more imposing, which women certainly like.
Also read my article on body language to learn more about the effect your body has on the person you are talking to.
3. Clothing
Well-fitting, well-groomed clothing that highlights your style and personality makes a big difference. It doesn’t have to be the most expensive designer clothes.
If you have trouble finding your own style, ask female people around you for advice.
During a one-on-one coaching session with me, we will also take a look at your appearance and your clothing style and how you can optimize this.
4. Expression
Speaking authentically and openly shows that you feel comfortable in your own skin – another sign of self-confidence.
Also, pay attention to your choice of words. Proper expression demonstrates intelligence.
5. Fitness
A fit body is attractive and shows that you take care of your health. You don’t have to have Arnold Schwarzenegger’s muscles, but it’s no secret that many women are attracted to men with strong arms.
6. Humor
Laughter connects people and shows that you don’t take life too seriously. A little fun is a must in life.
7. Friendliness
A friendly personality makes you likeable. This also includes respecting other people and their opinions.
Extra tip: Many women observe how you interact with the waiter/waitress to get a sense of whether you have a friendly and respectful nature.
8. Determination
A man with goals and ambitions appears motivated and attractive. This shows that you believe in yourself and want to achieve a lot.
9. Empathy
Empathy doesn’t mean becoming a complete softie, but rather being able to put yourself in other people’s shoes and understand them. Men who try to understand women’s feelings and know what they need are always popular.
10. Independence
Do you still live with your mom or are financially dependent on your parents? Not exactly attractive. To become attractive as a man, you should be as independent as possible.
11. Loyalty
Women want a man they can rely on and who will be faithful to them. That doesn’t mean you have to do everything for her during the getting-to-know-you phase. But once things get serious between you, you should show her that she’s the only one for you.
12. Alpha Softie
If you want to know how to become attractive as a man, you should also remember the term “alpha softie.” Many women desire a man who exudes masculinity (as an alpha male ) but also has a soft side. Such men therefore appear particularly attractive.
By the way, I have another article for you that tells you 40 characteristics that women like .
What makes a male face attractive?
An attractive male face has some key factors that catch the eye:
1. Symmetry
No face in the world is perfectly symmetrical, but it’s scientifically proven that people find a face more attractive the more symmetrical it is. Uniform facial features appear more harmonious and appealing.
2. Jawbone
A pronounced, well-defined jaw conveys strength and masculinity to women.
3. Eyes
Look into my eyes, baby! Expressive eyes that radiate joie de vivre and self-confidence instantly attract women. Tired eyes with a blank stare, on the other hand, are not at all attractive.
4. Skin
Well-groomed, clear skin shows that you take care of yourself. To be attractive as a man, you should maintain a hygienic appearance. Unkempt men are definitely not popular with women.
5. Smile
An open, honest smile can work wonders and instantly makes you more likeable. You appear confident, friendly, and full of life.
6. 3-day beard
In fact, many women really like it when men wear a light three-day beard. Why? Because it still looks well-groomed, but symbolizes masculinity.
How do you appear sexually attractive to women?
There are indeed big differences in what men and women find sexually attractive. For women, inner qualities definitely play a decisive role in how attracted they are to a man.
Here are some tips:
1. Be confident
Yes, self-confidence plays a role here, too . Show that you’re comfortable in your own skin and know you have a lot to offer.
2. Maintain plenty of eye contact
Intense eye contact can be very seductive. It lets a woman know she has your full attention. A real turn-off, however, is if you’re constantly distracted and looking elsewhere.
3. Flirt with her
No conquest works without flirting. For her to find you sexually attractive, there must first be chemistry between you. With the right flirting tips, you can achieve this in no time.
4. Touch them gently
Gentle, casual touches can build closeness and intimacy. But never be pushy and pay attention to her reaction.
By the way, I have more tips in another article on how you can successfully seduce women .
Women don’t find me attractive, what should I do?
If you feel that women don’t find you attractive, there are some steps you can take:
1. Talk to women
You’re probably thinking, “That’s a contradiction—why should I approach women if I seem unattractive anyway?” There are two reasons for this:
On the one hand, you will boost your self-confidence enormously by approaching strange women and, on the other hand, you will find out what women like and what they don’t.
On the other hand, there is a good chance that after some practice and the other tips in this article, you will be very attractive to women and will just assume that you seem unattractive.
On my blog you will find many helpful tips on how to approach women .
2. Pay attention to your appearance
Your appearance is the first impression a woman gets of you. So follow the tips above and make sure you make an immediate impression on her.
3. Work on your self-confidence
Especially if you have had little success with women so far, your self-confidence can suffer greatly.
Working on this will not only help you feel better, but also be more successful with women. Sports, hobbies, and achieving goals will help you achieve this.
